• Church should be a good mix of games, singing, a short devotion, and pizza.
• Accountability is meeting with a “grownup” who asks me if I’ve been reading my Bible.
• Socially, it’s easier to be a big fish in the “small pond” of church.
• All the hype is to get me in the door. This all happens for me.
• Discipleship happens through events and programs- Camp, Mission Trip, Lock-ins, Disciple Now Weekends.
• Spiritual maturity is measured in terms of event attendance.
• The space in which we meet is very important.
• Evangelism means inviting my unbelieving “friends” to church.
• Missions is backyard Bible clubs with poor kids one week every summer.

I’m not against youth ministry. But I suspect a generation (or two!) of pastors and church leaders who are products of youth group have heavily influenced the way church is done. So we’ve traded “pizza, games, singing and a short devotion” with, well, “donuts, drama, singing and a slightly longer devotion.” But the idea is the same- events, programs, attraction, and t-shirts are not what church is about.

We need to grow up.

Grown up doesn’t mean boring. It’s not the opposite of attractive. Grown-up church is unabashedly intrusive. It’s boldly personal. It’s radically Christ-centric. It fills in the gaps between “mountaintop experiences.” It replaces accountability groups with discipling relationships. It moves beyond “lend a helping hand” mission trips to entire churches taking spiritual accountability for unbelieving people groups. Grown-up church survives economic recession, moral failure on the part of the leadership, tragedy, marginalization, and persecution.

Is your church growing? Is it growing up?