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		<title>Bible Stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 00:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Growing up in church, kids always got special treatment. At my church, for example, there was some unwritten rule giving all adults in church &#8220;special&#8221; permission to &#8220;discipline&#8221; us as though we were their own kids. Doyle Braden was an arm-grabber, as I recall. Mr. Lettow would flick the backs of our heads. Sean&#8217;s dad [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Growing up in church, kids always got special treatment. At my church, for example, there was some unwritten rule giving all adults in church &#8220;special&#8221; permission to &#8220;discipline&#8221; us as though we were their own kids. <a href="http://www.csbc.com/domdirectory/article11851c62059.htm">Doyle Braden</a> was an arm-grabber, as I recall. Mr. Lettow would flick the backs of our heads. Sean&#8217;s dad pinched ears. Hard.</p>
<p>I digress.</p>
<p>Church kids didn&#8217;t have to listen to sermons. We were allowed to draw on the backs of bulletins and take naps. The sermon was for &#8220;grownups.&#8221; The kids, well, we were told &#8220;Bible stories.&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-474" style="margin: 5px;" title="Bible-1" src="http://missionsmisunderstood.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/bibel-1-300x204.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="204" />I remember my Sunday School teacher pulling out the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flannelgraph">flannelgraph</a> and using felt-cutouts of camels, caves, and men with beards retell (okay-<em> summarize</em>) the stories of the Bible. Noah and the Ark. The Fiery Furnace. The Good Samaritan. Great stories, all told in kid-friendly ways. You know, like on Sesame Street.</p>
<p>And that was the problem. Our little kid brains had a hard time telling the difference between Bible stories (which, I presume our teachers believed to have really happened or, in the case of the Samaritan, to have really been told by Jesus) and every other story we had been told. After all, David and Goliath had a giant, but so did Jack and the Beanstalk. Jesus was resurrected by the power of God, Sleeping Beauty was revivified by the Kiss of a Prince. To us, it was all kind of the same.</p>
<p>To make matters worse, our teachers often oversimplified the stories, diluting them into moralistic tales that they were never meant to be. Adam and Eve, Jacob and Esau, and Achan, taught us that is was bad to tell a lie. David and Jonathan showed us that sharing made us a good friend. Jonah was a lesson in obedience. Sunday morning Bible stories were like lo-tech Saturday morning cartoons. Only boring.</p>
<p>Looking back, I recognize that each &#8220;story&#8221; was an opportunity to share the gospel; to demonstrate our need for a savior and to recognize God&#8217;s provision in Christ. But instead, we learned that sharing and using good manners made Jesus happy. As we grew up, those stories were left behind for more practical topical Bible studies and the abstract &#8220;meat&#8221; of Pauline theology.</p>
<p>Of course, we eventually learned that The Three Little Pigs, The Seven Dwarfs, and all the other protagonists in our childhood stories weren&#8217;t real. How were we to know that their Bible story counterparts were?</p>
<p>I suppose what I&#8217;m getting at is that we need to be careful how we communicate things. The Bible isn&#8217;t God&#8217;s Cautionary Tales. Sure, there are lots of examples in the history of the Creator&#8217;s interaction with creation, but there&#8217;s more to it than that. Everything recorded in the text points to humanity&#8217;s relationship to God, made right only through the life, death, and real resurrection of Jesus. The way we talk about that history will affect how it is understood by those we tell.</p>
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		<title>Networks, Initiatives, Conferences, and Movements</title>
		<link>http://missionsmisunderstood.com/2010/07/14/networks-initiatives-conferences-and-movements/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 19:34:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems that everyone either has a network or is starting a network. A couple years ago, we started the Upstream Collective, a group of churches that think and act like missionaries. We looked around and didn&#8217;t see anything like it. We thought we could help. We saw a need, and we set out to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems that everyone either has a network or is starting a network. A couple years ago, we started the <a href="http://theupstreamcollective.org">Upstream Collective</a>, a group of churches that think and act like missionaries. We looked around and didn&#8217;t see anything like it. We thought we could help. We saw a need, and we set out to meet that need. We thought we were unique. Apparently, we weren&#8217;t the only ones.</p>
<p><a href="http://timmybrister.com/">Timmy Brister</a> recently launched the church-centric <a href="http://plntd.com/">PLNTD</a> Church Planting Network. The <a href="http://www.gcmcollective.com">GCM Collective</a> seems to be a splinter group of more missional-leaning <a href="http://www.acts29network.org/">Acts 29</a> leaders. <a href="http://www.missionalnetwork.org">Missional Network</a> is the <a href="http://www.namb.net/">North American Mission Board&#8217;s</a> appropriately-named network of missional churches. <a href="http://missionalchurchnetwork.com/">Missional Church Network</a>,  on the other hand, is mostly just a really good website, and not to be confused with the other <a href="http://missionalchurchnetwork.org/">Missional Church Network</a>, which isn&#8217;t very missional at all, and is in fact, a very bad website.   <a href="http://www.ecclesianet.org/">Ecclesia</a> is a &#8220;relational network of churches, leaders and movements that  seek to equip, partner and multiply missional churches and movements.&#8221;</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s that word, <em>movement</em>. According to its website, <a href="http://www.exponential.org">EXPONENTIAL</a> isn&#8217;t just a conference, it&#8217;s a movement. <a href="http://www.allelon.org/">Allelon</a> is a movement of missional leaders. Alan Roxburgh has his own <a href="http://www.roxburghmissionalnet.com/">Missional Network</a>, which isn&#8217;t a movement, but is a catalyst. <a href="http://www.catalystconference.com/">Catalyst</a> started as a conference and now wants to be a movement. <a href="http://erwinmcmanus.com/">Erwin McManus&#8217;</a> <a href="http://www.mosaicalliance.com/">Mosaic Alliance</a> is not the same as his joint venture with <a href="http://www.dankimball.com/">Dan Kimball</a> called the <a href="http://originsproject.org">ORIGINS</a> Project. ORIGINS is an event, network, and  community (all rolled into one) that will feature <a href="http://theforgottenways.org">Alan Hirsch</a>, who this year is launching his <a href="http://www.forgecanada.ca/">Forge USA Network</a> and Future Travelers, a vision trip initiative not unlike our own <a href="http://blog.theupstreamcollective.org/get-involved/jet-set-vision-trips/">Jet Set Vision Trips</a>.</p>
<p>These networks are characterized by their presence and the personalities  behind them. Their websites (for the most part) feature sharp graphic  design, professional-quality logos, and quality writing (nevermind that  we&#8217;re all drowning in jargon). The majority feature photos and bios of  the writers, bloggers, speakers, thinkers, and Christian  micro-celebrities that founded or endorse them. You really can&#8217;t  separate <a href="http://www.glocal.net/">GlocalNet</a> from Bob Roberts, or <a href="http://lifechurch.tv/">lifechurch.tv</a> (also <a href="http://network.lifechurch.tv/">a network</a>) without <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Craig_Groeschel">Craig Groeschel</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.edstetzer.com/2010/06/intradenominational-networks.html">Networks are on the rise</a>, and have replaced denominations for identity and influence. Local denominational entities may be responsible for funding most of the churches that are being planted today, but few of those new churches actually want to associate with those denominations. The result is lots of Mosaics, Journeys, Sojourns, Ecclesias, and Life(something)s, and fewer <a href="http://www.firstdallas.org/">First</a>, <a href="http://www.second.org/">Second</a>, and <a href="http://www.third-baptist.org/">Third Baptists Church</a>es being planted. This is why most of the more successful networks are sponsored by denominations, and why most new denominational efforts are being branded as &#8220;networks&#8221; and &#8220;movements.&#8221; (It&#8217;s important to note that those issues that divide conservative evangelical denominations are the same issues that prompt the birth of new networks: women in leadership, personalities, money, methodology/style, and power/influence.)</p>
<p>The prevalence of networks also reflects a further fragmented church. We used to have dozens of denominations, not we have hundreds of networks. Some of these groups are only loose affiliations- <a href="http://www.founders.org/">Founders Ministries</a> has become the informal association of reformed Southern Baptists- while others, like <a href="http://www.churchplanters.com">churchplanters.com</a>, are pay-to-play. Many networks, such as <a href="http://www.sendnyc.com/">SendNYC</a> and Austin-centered <a href="http://www.plantr.org">PlantR</a> are local. Others fancy themselves global (yes, that&#8217;s <a href="http://www.mosaix.info/">Mosaix with an &#8220;X&#8221;</a>). In all cases, churches describe and identify themselves by their network affiliations. There are even <a href="http://www.exponentialnetwork.com/">networks of networks</a>.</p>
<p>The question remains: do we need all these networks? Is it good for a church to describe itself as &#8220;an <a href="http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2007/february/11.35.html">emerging</a>, <a href="http://www.purposedrivenchurch.com/en-US/Home.htm">purpose-driven</a>, <a href="http://www.cmaresources.org/">organic</a>, <a href="http://www.site.house2house.com">simple</a>, <a href="http://www.friendofmissional.org/">missional</a>, <a href="http://www.theforgottenways.org/">incarnational</a>, <a href="http://www.joethorn.net/2009/08/11/gospel-centered/">gospel-centered</a>, <a href="http://www.sbc.net/">Southern Baptist</a> member of the <a href="http://www.acts29network.org/">Acts 29 Network</a>? To what extent are we all just competing for the attention (and dollars) 0f the same audience only to do (more or less) the same things?</p>
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		<title>How To Be An Interesting Person</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 10:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[All around you there are groups of people who are influencing and being influenced. You can (and should) be part of the discussion, but you&#8217;re too busy doing something that nobody else cares about. In your little &#8220;Christian&#8221; subculture bubble, you have no influence and few friends. Here are some tips to help you become [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All around you there are groups of people who are influencing and being influenced. You can (and should) be part of the discussion, but you&#8217;re too busy doing something that nobody else cares about. In your little &#8220;Christian&#8221; subculture bubble, you have no influence and few friends. Here are some tips to help you become interesting enough to actually make some friends this summer.</p>
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<li>Get a hobby. It doesn&#8217;t always have to be a really expensive one, either. It seems like everyone is into photography these days, (which is cool) but a new digital SLR can be pricey. <a href="http://www.lomography.com/">Lomography</a> can be really fun, or why not try something less consumeristic, like <a href="http://www.exploratorium.edu/light_walk/camera_todo.html">making your own camera</a>? Share your pictures on <a href="http://www.flickr.com/">Flickr</a> or your own <a href="http://www.photoblog.com/">photoblog</a>.</li>
<li>Start a <a href="http://howto.wired.com/wiki/Start_a_Viral_Political_Campaign_on_YouTube">campaign</a>. Find something to be passionate about and work to get other people excited about it too. You could design a <a href="http://www.twloha.com/index.php">web site</a> about it, record a <a href="http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=304765">podcast </a>about it, silkscreen or <a href="http://www.cafepress.com/">print</a> T-shirts, or <a href="http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=304765">write a </a><a href="http://www.baptistcreationcare.org/">manifesto</a>.</li>
<li>Go camping. Borrow a tent (everyone has one, but few people actually ever use them), and pack a sandwich. You don&#8217;t have to make it a big deal. Camp in the backyard even. Spending time in nature is a good way to enjoy and appreciate its Maker.</li>
<li>Teach yourself something new. <a href="http://www.dangerousbookforboys.com/">The Dangerous Book for Boys</a> is full of awesome stuff you should know but probably don&#8217;t. Your paper airplane skills will surely help you connect with some cool people. The interwebs are full of <a href="http://www.instructables.com/">how-tos</a> and useless information. Some things I&#8217;ve taught myself (with varying degrees of success) include: making my favorite <a href="http://cloned-recipes.blogspot.com/2007/10/chilis-chicken-enchilada-soup.html">chicken enchilada soup</a>, writing a <a href="http://www.htmlgoodies.com/">basic web page in html</a>, <a href="http://www.apple.com/support/imovie/tutorial/">home movie editing</a>, how to read a map, and <a href="http://www.bobross.com/howto.cfm">painting with oils</a>.</li>
<li>Read a book. Not disposable <a href="http://www.artandpopularculture.com/Airport_novel">airport novels</a>, but something that will inspire, intrigue, or challenge you. Become an inspired storyteller by rediscovering children&#8217;s literature. Start with Lemony Snicket&#8217;s <a href="http://www.lemonysnicket.com/"><em>A series of Unfortunate Events</em></a> or anything by <a href="http://www.roalddahl.com/">Roald Dahl</a>. There&#8217;s certainly no excuse for any literate person to not have read <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Road-Jack-Kerouac/dp/0140042598"><em>On The Road</em></a>, by Jack Kerouac or J.D. Salinger&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Catcher-Rye-J-D-Salinger/dp/0316769487"><em>The Catcher In The Rye</em></a>, and these are idea for reading with a friend or discussion group. Steven D. Levitt&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Freakonomics-Economist-Explores-Hidden-Everything/dp/006073132X">Freakonomics</a>, made me want to be an econo-sociologist, as did Malcom Gladwelll&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Tipping-Point-Little-Things-Difference/dp/0316346624/ref=pd_bbs_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1207645380&amp;sr=1-2">The Tipping Point</a>, but don&#8217;t bother with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Blink-Power-Thinking-Without/dp/0316010669/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1207645380&amp;sr=1-1">Blink</a>, just read his <a href="http://gladwell.typepad.com/gladwellcom/">blog</a> instead. Now these books will give you something to talk about.</li>
<li>Go geek. Read <a href="http://www.wired.com/">Wired</a> magazine, hang out in a comic book store, or go bowling even when you&#8217;re not on a youth group lock-in. Start collecting vinyl records, modifying vintage furniture to disguise modern technology, or scroll frame-by-frame through every episode of <em>Lost</em> looking for clues and <a href="http://losteastereggs.blogspot.com/">easter eggs</a>. Be sure to start every sentence with &#8220;basically&#8230;&#8221; &#8220;actually&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;technically&#8230;&#8221;  Geeks are the best friends you&#8217;ll ever have.</li>
<li>Volunteer. There are literally hundreds of charities and non-profit organizations that could use your help. The &#8220;nonprofit sector&#8221; section of your city&#8217;s <a href="http://craigslist.org">craigslist</a> is a great place to start your search. Be sure your lifestyle doesn&#8217;t contradict your cause., though.  A fair-trade Peta vegan pretty much has to swear off KFC.</li>
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<p>This list won&#8217;t make you an instant mover and shaker, but if you pick a couple and really go for it, you just might have a circle of friends to take pictures of and cook for on your volunteer do-it-yourself grassroots camping and Comic-Con and road trip in July.</p>
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		<title>Lifesavers and Letter Writing</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 11:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hate when people give advice about evangelism. &#8220;What you need to do,&#8221; they start, &#8220;is buy a five-pound bag of individually-wrapped Lifesavers candy. Then, print about five hundred business cards with the plan of salvation on the back. Staple a lifesaver to each of the business cards, and ask people if they&#8217;d like a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://missionsmisunderstood.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/lifesavers.jpg" alt="Lifesavers" align="right" />I hate when people give advice about evangelism. &#8220;What you need to do,&#8221; they start, &#8220;is buy a five-pound bag of individually-wrapped Lifesavers candy. Then, print about five hundred business cards with the plan of salvation on the back. Staple a lifesaver to each of the business cards, and ask people if they&#8217;d like a lifesaver. When they say yes, (because, I mean, everybody likes Lifesavers, right?) then you tell them that you&#8217;d like to give them a <em>REAL</em> lifesaver. Then you tell them about Jesus Christ.&#8221;</p>
<p>Okay, so that story isn&#8217;t mine. But a friend actually had a well-intentioned church member share this bit of evangelistic wisdom with him. It &#8220;works&#8221; for this guy, surely it would be equally effective in any setting. People can&#8217;t resist a &#8220;hook&#8221; like that. If they had Lifesavers in Jesus&#8217; time, He would have used them, too.</p>
<p>Did I mention that I hate when people give evangelism advice?</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s my advice. If you&#8217;re a fairly healthy, socially adept individual, please move on; this advice isn&#8217;t for you. But if you were raised in church, you&#8217;re likely as socially awkward as I am. You might need this.</p>
<p>Sometimes, the hardest part about talking to someone about Jesus is bringing it up. Since we were raised  in a sheltered subculture that didn&#8217;t help us make connections between our faith and &#8220;real life,&#8221; we often have trouble expressing ourselves on spiritual matters without resorting to clichés and religious words that don&#8217;t really mean anything to anyone outside our circles. To make matters worse, we&#8217;ve been trained to talk to strangers about Jesus. That&#8217;s easy. We&#8217;ve been convinced that the people around us will surely ridicule us for our beliefs, so we&#8217;re prepared to take that sort of rejection. Someone calls you a freak when you share your faith? Good for you, you&#8217;re suffering for the cause of Christ. But our friends? That&#8217;s much more difficult. There&#8217;s nothing worse then the &#8220;persecution&#8221; of being snubbed by your best friend the next time you run into them at Starbucks.</p>
<p>Why not write a letter? Not a letter outlining the four spiritual laws. Not sharing your faith. Write a personal letter telling your friend that you&#8217;d like to get together to talk with them about your spirituality. Tell them why you find it uncomfortable. Express your intentions- not to convert them but to share your experience. Tell them that you fear their rejection. Explain your frustration with your own inability to talk about these things without using church words. Tell them that you feel stupid for not being about to talk to your best friend about something that is so important to you. Tell them you&#8217;re sorry for being socially inept. Make an appointment with them for a time to talk about Jesus.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found that talking about Jesus isn&#8217;t nearly as weird for our friends as it is for us. They&#8217;re not emotionally hung up about it. They can talk about it like any other topic. We&#8217;re the ones who make it strange.  In fact, I suspect that if you write a letter like this, your friend would respond. They would probably bring it up. They may even hold you accountable and not let you wimp out. If they know it&#8217;s important to you, they&#8217;ll likely come prepared to talk about it.</p>
<p>But don&#8217;t do the Lifesavers-stapled-to-a-tract trick. That&#8217;s ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>Taking Advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Oct 2006 20:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Backyard Bible Clubs. Youth Camp. Sports ministries. If you do any of these as evangelistic outreach, I&#8217;ve got a question for you: are you taking advantage of children? Yeah, I know- you came to faith through VBS when you were six years old. If it &#8220;worked&#8221; for you, it can&#8217;t be that bad, right? Let&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Backyard Bible Clubs. Youth Camp. Sports ministries. If you do any of these as evangelistic outreach, I&#8217;ve got a question for you: are you taking advantage of children?</p>
<p>Yeah, I know- you came to faith through <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">VBS</span> when you were six years old. If it &#8220;worked&#8221; for you, it can&#8217;t be that bad, right?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just say, for the sake of argument, that a group of Muslims come to visit your town. They&#8217;re prepared with snacks and games and crappy little crafts with Popsicle sticks. They blanket your neighborhood with fliers announcing: Games! Clowns! Snacks! Crafts! Fun!</p>
<p>Or say you don&#8217;t see the fliers, but you&#8217;re at the park with your kids. There you are, minding your own business, eating your Chick-<span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">fil</span>-a picnic lunch, and said group of <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Muslims</span> approach your kids with balloons and puppets and invite them to participate in their Backyard Koran Club. You look around and see veiled women hanging around the playground. Young <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">peachfuzz</span>-bearded men picking teams for a game of non-competitive Red-Rover. How would you feel?</p>
<p>My European friends have convinced me: children&#8217;s &#8220;ministries&#8221; are a dangerous thing.<br />The problem is that we put children in a position to be overwhelmingly influenced by us. We orchestrate situations full of &#8220;positive&#8221; peer pressure. We give gifts and <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Kool</span>-Aid and ask them to give their hearts to Jesus. Is this fair? What are the long-term affects of child evangelism?</p>
<p>You might disagree, and quote Mark 10 (Where Jesus said, &#8220;Let the <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">little</span> children come unto me.&#8221;)  I&#8217;m just not sure that meant &#8220;Dupe the little kids into saying the Sinner&#8217;s prayer.&#8221;</p>
<p>Remember youth camp? We take impressionable 13-17 yr. <span onclick="BLOG_clickHandler(this)" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">olds</span> out of their familiar surroundings, and keep them in a controlled, &#8220;Christian&#8221; environment, where they are taught by super-cool counselors. They get no sleep, they eat trash, and every evening we coax an emotional response out of them through hours upon hours of pep-rallies (&#8220;We love Jesus, yes we do, we love Jesus, how &#8217;bout you?!&#8221;), guilt-trip sermons (&#8220;Come, nail all your sins to this cross.&#8221;), and endless &#8220;Just As I Am&#8221; invitations. Is this fair? These are children! We don&#8217;t want cigarette and beer companies to advertise to them, but it&#8217;s okay if we do?</p>
<p>You might say, &#8220;Yeah, but we&#8217;re right! Don&#8217;t you want to see children come to faith?&#8221; Of course I do. But I want everyone who comes to faith to do so without coercion. I want a generation of born-again believers, not &#8220;I-said-the-prayer&#8221; cultural Christians. I want parents to know that we care about them and their children, whether or not they become Christians. I want parents to know what we&#8217;re teaching their children, and how, and why.</p>
<p>I believe the word should be taught to children. We should be telling Bible stories, sharing difficult truths, and praying with and for our children. But I think child evangelism, and it&#8217;s commonly practiced, is wrong.</p>
<p>I guess I probably won&#8217;t be invited to speak at any youth camps when I&#8217;m home on furlough next year&#8230;</p>
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		<title>You Are What You Read</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Sep 2006 08:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of weeks ago, David Rogers tagged me with a game that asked me to list some books I&#8217;ve read recently. It sort of made the rounds through the blogosphere (again), and many of my fellow bloggers had played along. There are categories, such as &#8220;One book that changed your life&#8221; or &#8221; One [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of weeks ago, <a href="http://www.loveeachstone.blogspot.com/">David Rogers</a> tagged me with a game that asked me to list some books I&#8217;ve read recently. It sort of made the rounds through the blogosphere (again), and many of my fellow bloggers had played along. There are categories, such as &#8220;One book that changed your life&#8221; or <em></em><em></em>&#8221; One book you&#8217;d want on a desert island.&#8221; I posted my answers on the <a href="http://ernestgoodman.blogspot.com/">Stepchild blog</a>, but that&#8217;s not the point. The point is that it took me a very long time to decide what books to list, and not for lack or plenty of recently read books.</p>
<p>At first, I filled out the questionnaire without putting too much thought into it. Nobody really reads that blog anyway. It was while I was proof reading that I hesitated. Every book I had listed was &#8220;Christian.&#8221; Every one. I stopped to think for a second. Was &#8220;Searching For God Knows What&#8221; my favorite book <span style="font-style: italic;">ever</span>? Would I <span style="font-style: italic;">really</span> want to read &#8220;A New Kind of Christian&#8221; over and over if I was stranded on a desert island? Had any &#8220;Christian&#8221; book made me laugh (on purpose), <span style="font-style: italic;">ever</span>?</p>
<p>My mind flipped through the pages of some of the great literature I&#8217;ve had the privilege of reading (and -in the case of university- skimming): Dickens, Hawthorne, <span style="">Steinbeck. These guys wrote <span style="font-style: italic;">books</span>. Most &#8220;Christian&#8221; books are glorified how-to manuals or sermons I&#8217;d never sit through. They don&#8217;t really move you, and if they do, it&#8217;s likely because you&#8217;ve been lulled into a &#8220;Christian&#8221; coma by the garbage they sell in the local Bible bookstore.</p>
<p>How else can you explain 16 books in the &#8220;Left Behind&#8221; series?</p>
<p>So I went back to the book list game, and I filled in the blanks with non&#8221;Christian&#8221; books. Real books. And while I admit that I left out my favorite C.S. Lewis title just out of spite, I like to think that my &#8220;secular&#8221; list is more honest. Those are the books that have affected the way my imagination works. The best part about them, Poe and </span>Salinger, is that they changed the way I think without actually setting out to do that.</p>
<p>When I think about it, nearly every &#8220;Christian&#8221; book I&#8217;ve ever read was written in an attempt to influence the way I think. It&#8217;s evident by the text (no matter what the genre) that most of the authors are trying to teach me something. From the beginning, they set out to change my mind about something. Instead of telling a story for the sake of the beauty or honesty of it, they start with an agenda and go from there. How to have a better understanding of ministry or steps toward the full Christian life. Even the biographies are trying to convince me that so-and-so was a good man or that what&#8217;s-his-name was what a Christian ought to be.</p>
<p>Beauty. Good story-telling. True creativity. These things, if you can find them at all in &#8220;Christian&#8221; literature, are accidental.</p>
<p>So I think I&#8217;m happy with my list as it stands. I did include one &#8220;Christian&#8221; book after all. Sure I&#8217;ve read some great religious books. Some have influenced me quite a bit. But despite all their zealous attempts at making me a better Christian, they remain largely forgettable compared to <span style="font-style: italic;">truly</span> good books.</p>
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		<title>Vietnamese Takeout</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jul 2006 20:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Despite the fact that people are always telling me that history is important, I&#8217;ve never really been a history buff. In fact, I learned nearly everything I know about history by watching Hollywood movies. I didn&#8217;t even know about the Apollo 13 thing until, well, Apollo 13. Forest Gump taught me about three Presidents, Elvis [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Despite the fact that people are always telling me that history is important, I&#8217;ve never really been a history buff. In fact, I learned nearly everything I know about history by watching Hollywood movies. I didn&#8217;t even know about the Apollo 13 thing until, well, <span style="font-style: italic;">Apollo 13</span>. <span style="font-style: italic;">Forest Gump</span> taught me about three Presidents, Elvis Presley, and the Black Panthers. <span style="font-style: italic;">Saving Private Ryan</span> exposed me to the horrors of World War II&#8230; okay, so maybe Tom Hanks taught me all the history I know.</p>
<p>Anyway, I read something the other day about how a large percentage of the homeless population in the U.S. are veterans of the war in Vietnam. Many of them came home after the war and were never able to integrate back in to American life and culture; at least not enough to hold down a job and support a family. I guess it would really change a person to be recruited by his country (or worse still, drafted) into the military, trained to kill people and blow things up, and sent off to fight Asian Communists. I can&#8217;t imagine how war must affect a person. But I don&#8217;t think that war is the only reason we can still find veterans walking down the middle of the street talking to themselves in obscenities at three o&#8217;clock in the morning. I think it&#8217;s America&#8217;s fault.</p>
<p>I think that Americans weren&#8217;t really all that into the fight against communism in the first place, and when President Johnson sent all those boys to Vietnam, the country was indifferent. While they were gone, Americans decided they were against this unwinnable war, and began to resent it. They protested against it. And when the boys came back they weren&#8217;t welcomed with the ticker-tape parades like the heroes of WWII. No, they were showered with shouts of &#8220;Baby Killer!&#8221; and other mean things. No wonder the soldiers didn&#8217;t fit in when they got back. They did exactly what they were trained and sent to do, and when they got home, we blamed them.</p>
<p>Sometimes it seems like that same sort of thing happens to missionaries.</p>
<p>Now I would never even consider comparing the experience of a soldier fighting in a physical war to what we go through on the field. Especially not those of us in Western Europe. The comparison I&#8217;m making is not to the effects of the battle, but to the  necessity of support from those who sent us, and the profound effects of anything less than total support.</p>
<p>My recruitment to work for the IMB began when I was four years old. It was a denominational program called &#8220;Mission Friends,&#8221; and we were taught about brave IMB missionaries who left their homes and went to live among the primitive tribes of Guatemala or wherever. My missions education continued throughout my life: Royal Ambassadors, Sojourners, Centrifuge. They told me what missions was, and how it was done.</p>
<p>So I &#8220;enlisted.&#8221; I felt God&#8217;s calling and made the decision to enter &#8220;full-time ministry,&#8221; whatever that meant. I went to a Baptist University for training, and then on to Seminary. Both trained me well in the ways of church planting, Bible scholarship, and cross-cultural communication. The IMB  put me through a crash-course orientation, and I was off to the &#8220;Foreign Field.&#8221;</p>
<p>We hit the ground running. We sought out Persons of Peace and worked to learn the language and engage the culture. We started groups and shared our faith. And it affected us. We worked to live out our faith in this foreign context, and it changed us. Doing what we were sent to do had the side effect of allowing us to see ourselves from another perspective. We found it harder and harder to relate to the fat, lazy American Christians and their fat, lazy American Christianity; so full of themselves and their politics and their megabuildings. We began to resent being sent by  religious people that wanted us to set up American franchise churches and who threw money at us to &#8220;just do our jobs.&#8221; We grew frustrated with the increasingly restrictive rules that they imposed without any regard for the impact those rules might have on our ministries. We are becoming jaded.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t until the first time I returned to the States on vacation that I realized that the churches, those same people that cheered us on and prayed over us at our appointment, had changed, too. New missions trends, theories, and ideas had swept through the Christian subculture, and the focus had moved on to different unreached people groups. Missions-minded churches were still sending volunteers, but they craved something more &#8220;extreme.&#8221; Some churches focused only on local &#8220;missions,&#8221; buying into the idea that overseas ministry is only for rich megachurches. The majority seems to think that by getting involved in IMB politics and trustee antics they are somehow supporting us and furthering the kingdom work. The churches sent us, and then for whatever reason, forgot us.</p>
<p>Now missionaries compete with other missionaries for support. We talk up our flashy new programs to try to get volunteers to come to us and not to Central Asia. We tell stories of how hard it is here to legitimize our work, to prove to you that we, too, are doing <span style="font-style: italic;">real</span> missions. We print up professional-quality prayer cards to attract your attention to our photo on your refrigerator.</p>
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		<title>Be True To Your School</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 May 2006 10:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my last post, I wrote about the resolution to &#8220;Develop an exit strategy from public schools&#8221; that is being proposed to the Southern Baptist Convention. Since we&#8217;re trying to put together an effective entrance strategy here in Western Europe (doing the opposite of what the resolution calls for), I&#8217;ve decided to put myself in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my last post, I wrote about the resolution to &#8220;Develop an exit strategy from public schools&#8221; that is being proposed to the Southern Baptist Convention. Since we&#8217;re trying to put together an effective <i>entrance</i> strategy here in Western Europe (doing the opposite of what the resolution calls for), I&#8217;ve decided to put myself in the shoes of someone back in the states and give some suggestions for engaging our communities through the public school system:</p>
<p>They aren&#8217;t well-paid. They work long hours, and they are &#8220;on call&#8221; 24 hours a day. Their impact is great, but they receive little recognition. They share their testimonies and beliefs every chance they get, thought they often deal with strict regulations against openly sharing their faith. I&#8217;m not talking about missionaries to far-off places, here; this is the life of your average Christian public school teacher. Which brings me to my first point:</p>
<p>1. Local churches need to start treating public school teachers as missionaries. I mean it. A commissioning service, full prayer support, maybe even some financial assistance. They are doing missions by sharing life with people in natural ways. Everything they teach, every opinion they give is heavily influenced by their relationship with Jesus. We see it so clearly in foreign lands- missionaries in China teaching English classes- but for some reason we put teachers in a different category. They go through culture shock. They have to learn a &#8220;foreign&#8221; language. They have to be creative, patient, and culturally relevant. It&#8217;s time we recognize that.</p>
<p>What if, instead of pulling out of the public school system, we pushed our way into it? What if the public school system was flooded with Christian students, teachers, and administrators?</p>
<p>2. We need to start sending teachers into the system. Whenever a young person asks me about becoming a missionary, I always encourage them to look for ways outside the professional missionary system. Having the title &#8220;Missionary&#8221; brings with it more barriers and obstacles than we often realize. What if we started recruiting, training, and sending young people into the public school system as missionaries to their communities? We send short-term semester and summer missionaries to rough, inner-city areas to minister, why not send qualified teachers into those schools that are desperate for teachers anyway?</p>
<p>3. We need to be intentional about training and sending our children to public schools. What if we trained them, even the young ones, to study the culture of their class at school? What if we prepared them to face the dangers of their particular mission field and helped them get spiritually ready to face each day in that context?</p>
<p>4. Parents must get involved. The public school system began it&#8217;s sex education program in the fourth grade when I was in public school. My mom went and previewed the films and curriculum, and then made me read a James Dobson book to supplement what was being taught. Ok, so I don&#8217;t recommend giving kids a James Dobson book, but I think she had the right idea. If parents know what&#8217;s being taught to their kids, they can counter those worldly things with truth. This way, kids know what the world says, and learn to contrast that with what the Bible says.</p>
<p>But parents aren&#8217;t only limited to reviewing curriculum. They can join the PTA, be a &#8220;Class Mom,&#8221; or a Teacher&#8217;s Aid. They can get on all those committees, boosters, clubs, and organizations that actually decide what the public school does. At our local school, there was a PTA committee that decided whether or not a church plant could meet on the campus on Sundays. Parents can even substitute teach. This would extend the parent&#8217;s influence to reach not only their own kids, but other kids in the community as well.</p>
<p>5. To affect change, service is the answer. We have &#8220;work days&#8221; at church, why don&#8217;t local churches organize and sponsor work days at the local public schools? The administrators are always looking for ways to save money. What if some Christians came in and raked leaves or repainted the lockers? Schools always need recess monitors and traffic controllers and crossing guards. A Bible Study group could supply refreshments for the School Board meetings. Doing these things, without expecting special favors in return and without any strings attached, would affect the local public schools for the better. What if the school administrators didn&#8217;t have to see Christians as their enemies? Wouldn&#8217;t it be something if, when faced with a need, the principal felt he could call the local church for help?</p>
<p>So I guess what I&#8217;m proposing here is that we develop an &#8220;entry and engagement strategy&#8221; for the public schools. Not so we can make them &#8220;Christian,&#8221; but so we can make to most of this great opportunity we have to interact with and serve our communities. Our involvement is what will help our children. It is being salt and light.</p>
<p>In Western Europe, missionaries develop and implement these sorts of strategies in order to engage their communities and plant churches. We would start here and go even further, looking for those existing entry points into the community and making the most of them. What if the churches that send us were doing the same back home?</p>
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		<title>Entrance Strategy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2006 15:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ernest</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every year, Southern Baptists from across the United States get together in an annual Convention. This is a time for them to discuss denominational direction, elect leaders, and share what God is doing. One key part of the meeting is the proposal of resolutions. These are actions that members would like the denomination as a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every year, Southern Baptists from across the United States get together in an annual Convention. This is a time for them to discuss denominational direction, elect leaders, and share what God is doing. One key part of the meeting is the proposal of resolutions. These are actions that members would like the denomination as a whole to support. Because they are passed by majority vote, approved resolutions say a lot about the Southern Baptist Convention. An example would be the resolution to boycott Disney. It was passed in 1997, and called on all Southern Baptists to boycott all media, products, and properties of the Walt Disney Company.</p>
<p>As this year&#8217;s convention in Greensboro, North Carolina nears, several resolutions are being proposed. One that I find particularly troubling is a resolution calling for <a href="http://www.bpnews.net/bpnews.asp?ID=23148">Southern Baptist churches to develop an exit strategy from public schools.&#8221;</a> Now this is not a new one- Al Mohler proposed it a couple years ago. But the attitude behind it is frustrating.</p>
<p>As a missionary, my job is to enter into a community and translate the gospel into the culture of the people there. It isn&#8217;t easy. I spend a lot of my time the things that influence people and learning how they think and behave. The most challenging part about it all is finding ways to meet people and interact with them in meaningful ways. With rules against us taking jobs here and no funds to pay for joining clubs and other activities, we struggle to find common ground with the few people God brings to us. Despite the difficulty, (and the fact that we aren&#8217;t wanted here!) we continue to seek new ways to engage the population. Why? Because God brought us here to be salt and light, and He has given us everything we need in order to be who we need to be.</p>
<p>But while we are looking for an <i>entrance</i> strategy to get access to lost people, we hear about believers back home wanting to develop an <i>exit</i> strategy. These are brothers and sisters who share our same commission to make disciples, but don&#8217;t face a language/culture barrier, and have natural access to the lost people of their communities. Forgive my frustration, but it seems that these folks don&#8217;t appreciate the opportunity God has provided in the public school system.</p>
<p>I know what goes on in public schools. I understand that they aren&#8217;t teaching biblical truth. I know that things go on there that are not God-honoring. Sure, people are concerned about their children&#8217;s learning and development. It makes sense that parents would want to protect their kids from the sin that infests the system. I&#8217;m not interested in getting into a debate about home-schooling. Really. Please. I respect a parent&#8217;s right and responsibility to select the best form of education for their kids. I don&#8217;t think homeschooling is wrong. I know there are other ways for kids to be involved with their peers. As far as I&#8217;m concerned, it about the attitude.</p>
<p>I am frustrated that my denomination would consider supporting the development of an &#8220;exit strategy&#8221; from public schools because it is indicative of an attitude that is the opposite of missional. If the people who are in favor of this resolution were really thinking of themselves as missionaries; really looking for ways to engage the people around them, I wonder if they wouldn&#8217;t reconsider. On the field, our families are in constant spiritual danger. We are surrounded by materialism, sexual sin, drug use, the occult, and other enemy activity. Obedience to God&#8217;s call and direction requires exposure to sinful things. When God sent us, He knew what our kids would go through. He knew how it would break our hearts to see MK&#8217;s deal with things that children shouldn&#8217;t have to deal with. We know first-hand the importance of putting on spiritual armor. But we do it because we&#8217;re here to be incarnational to the people here.</p>
<p>We see it pretty clearly here. Have our brothers and sisters in the States lost sight of that?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m concerned about the message this attitude sends to our children. This sort of isolationism is what has made Christianity ineffective and irrelevant; not only to the world, but to our children and ourselves. It has led to the construction of a &#8220;Christian&#8221; subculture that takes us off the front lines of ministry and lulls us into complacency, trusting our &#8220;Christian&#8221; version of the world to be safe and, well, Christian.</p>
<p>How can we justify separating ourselves from the world because it isn&#8217;t pleasing to God? How can we prepare our children to engage the culture and to work redemptively within it if we take them out of it? Shouldn&#8217;t we as parents expect to supplement our children&#8217;s education with discipleship? Couldn&#8217;t we use their exposure to sinful things as an opportunity to teach them to find bridges to sharing the gospel, discern right from wrong and truth from lies, and to avoid fear of the world? What if we started thinking of ourselves as missionaries, and started training our children to be on mission as well?</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2006 10:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently attended a conference workshop where the speaker asked a lot of questions. She was talking about postmodernism (yeah, we still have to have the &#8220;Postmodernism&#8221; talk every time we get together), and sharing from her experience with a postmodern European guy. She presented their interaction as a case study, to illustrate the challenge [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently attended a conference workshop where the speaker asked a lot of questions. She was talking about postmodernism (yeah, we still have to have the &#8220;Postmodernism&#8221; talk every time we get together), and  sharing from her experience with a postmodern European guy. She presented their interaction as a case study, to illustrate the challenge of cultural translation of the good news. After she told her story she, for the sake of discussion, asked her audience: &#8220;So what would you do if you were in my shoes and ministering to this postmodern European guy?&#8221;</p>
<p>And then it began.</p>
<p>Instead of taking the speaker&#8217;s question (she is an excellent communicator, by the way) as a conversation-starter, they heard her asking for advice on how to handle the situation. Never mind the fact that the speaker was asked to speak because of her wisdom and experience in ministry to postmoderns. Never mind that she had already been ministering to this individual for some time. <i>People actually raised their hands and offered their answers to her &#8220;problem!&#8221;</i></p>
<p>&#8220;Have you tried confronting him about his sin?&#8221;<br />&#8220;You should give him a copy of &#8216;Evidence That Demands A Verdict.&#8217;&#8221;<br />&#8220;I&#8217;d move him to the back burner and look for someone more open to the gospel.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll admit that I was secretly comforted by the response the speaker received. I&#8217;ve often found myself in the same situation; asking questions to inspire discussion but met with words of advice from an oblivious audience. Until now, I thought it was me.</p>
<p>Now, please don&#8217;t hear me say that I don&#8217;t want or need the wisdom of others. I, of all of us, certainly do. But there&#8217;s something disheartening about interactive discussion being shut down by a know-it-all. More than the answers, I think it&#8217;s the attitude that ruins things. It&#8217;s the &#8220;I&#8217;ve already got these things figured out. I&#8217;ll go to the trouble of sharing the solutions with you, but I won&#8217;t venture to honestly revisit the question.&#8221; You can almost hear them saying: &#8220;Look, I gave you the answer. I solved your problem. If you spend any more time talking about it, you&#8217;re a fool.&#8221;</p>
<p>But what that says to people like me (as if there were more than just me) is that the know-it-alls don&#8217;t really have it figured out at all. They have a working &#8220;solution,&#8221; and either for fear, laziness, or ignorance, won&#8217;t suffer questioning it again. I never want to be that guy. But for some reason, our subculture often seems to hold &#8220;that guy&#8221; up as the leader.</p>
<p>I am encouraged, though. It&#8217;s been a long time since &#8220;that guy&#8221; has been invited to lead a workshop.</p>
<p>I say, let&#8217;s ask questions. Even the ones we answered a long time ago. Especially the ones that are scary to ask. Let&#8217;s, for the sake of discussion, re-ask questions about God and His people from the perspective of know-nothings. I think there&#8217;s a lot to be learned by asking questions. Don&#8217;t you?</p>
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