More often than not, “partnering in missions,” means small churches give what little money they think they can afford to a larger church or a missions sending agency that will handle mobilization, screening, indoctrination, training, sending, and maintenance of missionaries on the field. This is not “partnering,” it’s outsourcing.

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The Mom-and-Pop Church (Part 3)

Part 1 of this post set the scene with the story of the rise of Starbucks in relation to smaller coffee shops. Part 2 drew parallels between Starbucks and American megachurches. Welcome to part 3.

Starbucks CupThe similarities between the coffee chain and the megachurch aren’t incidental. The seeker-sensitive movement is built on a corporate model. It doesn’t matter if you’re selling widgets, coffee, or Jesus, the principles are the same; you convince people to buy whatever it is you’re selling, and then you try to hang on to your clients by continuing to sell them more. But what happens when people realize that they can make even better coffee at home for a lot less than Starbucks? What happens when people realize that their small group (which is a ministry of a megachurch) is actually a church and that all the other stuff is unnecessary?

Starbucks is entry-level for coffee drinkers. Their coffee is a gateway drug. People start with a Mocha Frappuccino and the next thing you know they’re sipping on a doppio macchiato. Megachurches (and their well-intentioned knockoffs) are many people’s introduction to church. But every grand opening, product launch, and advertising campaign distance the institution from its converts. Both systems foster an addictive dependence, but their relentless pursuit of new converts can make the faithful feel taken for granted.

Starbucks may or may not realize this, but people don’t go to Starbucks for the coffee. They go for the comforting sense of belonging. A customer may not speak to a soul during her visit, but something about that familiar space- people working away on laptops, reading the newspaper, sipping their coffee- makes one feel at home. I may not talk to anyone in the shop, but I could. People enjoy assuming that the other customers and I are the same. The same goes for the megachurch. The seeker sensitive movement understands that people like the feeling of belonging, especially if they don’t actually have to do anything to get that feeling.

Starbucks MeetingThe comfortable chairs and the little round tables make a promise that Starbucks can’t (and never intended to) keep. The appearance of community is not the same as actual community. The baristas may call out your name when your order is ready, but they don’t know you. The other people in the shop, they want you to leave so they can plug in their laptops and work in peace. There’s a sense of entitlement that comes with participating in a program that’s specifically aimed at you. The greeters at the door of the megachurch probably won’t remember your name either. Programs don’t build community, they build consumerism.

If Starbucks’ goal was to get more people to drink coffee- any coffee- instead of getting people to drink their coffee, how would they do things differently? If Christians believed that growing the Kingdom is more important than growing a church, would there be any megachurches or multi-site churches or video venues? Denominations?

Is there any biblical reason to grow a local church rather than start new ones? Is there any reason for new church plants to share the same name, leadership, brand, or identity (that is, apart from the name of Jesus and identity in Him) as another? Is there any biblical reason to limit church to a meeting time or place?

Starbucks is at a point of crisis. Growth is slowing, profits are down, and they’ve lost their identity. The same is coming for the American megachurch. In my next installment, I’ll introduce you to the Mom-and-Pop churches that will replace them.

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5 Responses to “The Mom-and-Pop Church (Part 3)”

  • David Phillips Says:

    Ernest,

    megachurches are already declining

  • Ray Short Says:

    I agree with your post…but don’t you think the pastors of these churches will say “hey, I am growing the kingdom by growing my church.”? What will it take for them to see that these are not one in the same.

    Or to put it another way, what, in your opinion, is the tipping point where the pastors of megachurches (or churches on their way to becoming one) see that kingdom growth and church growth aren’t the same?

    -ray

  • Matt Says:

    “The comfortable chairs and the little round tables make a promise that Starbucks can’t (and never intended to) keep. The appearance of community is not the same as actual community. ”

    What about the times that community appears in spite of the fact that Starbucks can’t (and never intended to) keep that promise. In two different Starbucks locations in California I watched as community really existed and flourished. After entering Starbucks as strangers, people who would not speak to each other while walking through the grocery store would actually have a conversation and begin to connect. Over the course of 18 months I watched a group of Tuesday morning regulars move from people sitting alone to a group that rearranges furniture in order to include a dozen people in the conversation.

    If there are people who will go to Starbucks for that comforting sense of belonging and plug a little piece of their soul with that feeling, are their not also people who will enter into the doors of a branded mega church to plug a little “god” into their that place in their soul that longs for God.

    While I can’t stand most mega churches, do they need committed followers of Christ who are willing to do the hard work of creating community inside of a place that allows people have that appearance of community rather than the real thing? Do they need people who are willing to attend the same service each week and sit in the same seats so that they can intentionally get to know people and then engage in their lives? Do they need people who are willing to actually introduce themselves to the other parents picking up their kids from the nursery? Do mega churches need intentional missionaries sitting in those comfortable cushy chairs?

  • Todd Says:

    Ernest,
    Once again, you offer poignant insight that extends beyond the target to all of us who lead churches.

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